Where to Spread the Ashes
Although the death of a loved one is always difficult to grapple with, planning can make this trying time easier for everyone involved. Learning how to choose a cremation urn can take some of the pressure away from a grieving family.
Thinking about what the person enjoyed
One of the best ways to choose the place for the spreading of the ashes is to identify a place that was special to your loved one. A favorite fishing spot for one who enjoyed fishing, a favorite vacation place, or any special place that meant a lot to the departed would make a perfect location for the spreading of the ashes.
Thinking about how you feel
If you cannot find a place that is special to your loved one, it may be best for you to pick a place yourself. In doing so, it is helpful to think about where your family would like to remember the departed. A place that reminds you of them or somewhere you enjoyed together can make a wonderful resting place for your deceased loved one.
A meaningful place
The most important aspect of choosing the final resting place is selecting a significant one. Picking a place that has meaning is what makes the place special to you and to others who choose to visit and remember your loved one. The choice of a final resting place can be difficult and emotional. However, as long as you pick a place with meaning to the deceased person or their loved ones, then it is special by definition. The perfect location honors the deceased and their life and gives you a place to remember that time with them all at once.